Does Sending Flowers To A Girl Work?
Girls simply don’t know what they want…most of the time. Sometimes they think they do but that doesn’t always pan out either. What does work, what does “get the girl” in the end is an understanding of women, romance, and how to sweep them off their feet. A guy who knows how to do that will be head-and-shoulders above the rest.
Does Sending Flowers To A Girl Really Work?
Sending flowers to a girl will work as long as you understand what she needs. Women will not tell you what they want or what they need and they certainly don’t want you to follow any “rules” to win them. They also don’t want you to be something you’re not (at least most girls don’t). What they DO want is for you to make things happen. They want you to be spontaneous AND romantic. If the girl you’re seeing has a slight spark of romanticism in her heart then sending her flowers will work like a charm.
There’s a false belief by some that sending things like chocolate and flowers is out of date or old-fashioned. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Gestures from you to a girl will always be deemed sweet even if it’s something that other people may feel is cliche. What you do need to make sure of though is that she’s interested in you. If she’s not aware of your existence then sending flowers is NOT going to allow you to make much progress. In fact, if you send a girl flowers that you’re not in a relationship with (or if you don’t know if she likes you or not) then it could ruin any chance of their being a relationship. However, if you are already in a relationship with her or you’re “dating” then sending flowers will work.
Face it, women have been romanticized since birth. With romantic comedies, Disney Movies, daytime soap operas, night time prime-time dramas and more they’ve been inundated with visions of cliched romantic situations. This has created, within most women, a soft-spot for “cheesy” romantic scenarios. Thus if you send her a singing telegram at work it may make her feel like a Disney Princess. Now, sending flowers to a girl, singing telelgram, chocolates, edible bouquets, etc. may seem stupid but if you’ve been in any workplace before it’s not. I’ve worked at offices where when one girl would get flowers/candy/etc. the other girls in the office would get REALLY jealous. I even heard one girl tell her boyfriend over the phone that same day that she wished HE was as romantic!
The best way to make this work is to do it when she’s not expecting it. If she is, because say, it’s her birthday or something, then it will be far less expensive. What you want to do is send flowers to a girl when she’s NOT expecting it. Send her a big bouquet on a random Wednesday afternoon. This shows that you’re not only spontaneous but also romantic.
Also, some other good times to send flowers include: Holidays (Valentines day), when you’re in trouble and after your first date.
It’s a good idea to send the flowers to her workplace. This works a MILLION times better than sending them to her home.
Remember: If you’re trying to pick up a girl that you’re interested in make sure that she’s interested in you before you send her flowers. Honestly, it’s kind of creepy to send flowers to a girl who’s not interested in you (or isn’t quite sure if she’s interesed in you yet).
Sending Flowers To A Girl