How To Impress A Married Woman

Impressing, attracting, and seducing married women can be a dangerous situation.  There are many aspects involved and you have to be prepared for all of them should you go ahead and make your move.  In this article I will show you what you need to do to the point of making her question her relationship with the other man, and end up desiring you.

Making The Right Impression

First rule…be careful!  Learning how to get a married woman has many pitfalls and dangers.   Before we get into the actual ways in which to seduce an attached lady, let’s go over what you need to be prepared for.

Breaking Up A Family

Now, if she’s newly wed or without children then this point is not as relevant.  But if she does have children it’s something that you’ll have to think about.  Do you want to be the cause of a family break-up?  Is an affair with this woman worth it?

You’ll need to think about thinks like a potential divorce and custody battles.  Not to mention the emotional and psychological baggage that will accompany the woman.  So you have to ask yourself if it’s completely worth all of the potential headaches to have an affair.

Who Is She Married To?

It’s important to know who the woman is married to.  If you’re going to make a move on a married woman, and she reciprocates, you should know who her man is.  This is especially true if you plan on making the affair a “long-term” kind of thing.  Find out who he is, what he’s like, and what he does for a living.  If he manages a local video store, it may not be that bad. However, if he’s a member of The Secret Service or works for the Gambino crime family you may want to seriously rethink the affair.

Now that I’ve gotten the “disclaimer” out of the way, let’s get into how to talk to a married woman and attract/seduce her away from her significant other.

There’s No Such Thing As The Perfect Man

I have a theory that most women are constantly looking to “upgrade” their relationship.  I think it’s basic evolution that a woman wants a man who can protect her and give her EVERYTHING she wants.  If she’s married to a man who doesn’t “cut the mustard” then she may be open to upgrading to you.

Why would she stay with a man she’s not satisfied with?  This is a common question men have.  A lot of women are like men in that they just don’t want to be single.  They hate being alone and they’ll “settle” for a man simply to cure that loneliness and boredom.  But, if another man comes along who may be better, then all bets could be off and she may be open to leaving the man she’s with for the better man.

Flirting

First you have to be VERY cautious.  Don’t overdo it or you’ll turn her off, even if she’s interested in you.  You have to be subtle when you are figuring her out.  You need to take everything very slow.  It’s almost the opposite of trying to seduce single women in that you want to be her friend first. The goal of becoming her friend is to form a bond in which she can trust you and view you as someone she can confide in.  If she thinks all you want is to get into her pants then she won’t confide in you.

So talk to her like you would any of your male friends.  Talk about baseball, the weather, or work related stuff.  Form a close friendship bond with her like you would any other guy.  At first you don’t want to let on at all that you are interested in her physically.  Just keep it light at first and gradually build up your relationship with her.  Later on, when you are closer as friends she will start to open up to you more and even start talking to  you about problems she’s having with her husband.

Start To Whittle Away At Their Bond

If you want to learn how to impress a married woman you’re going to have to start slow.  You want to make the married woman you’re interested in EVALUATE her relationship with her husband.  You want to draw out of her the problems she may be having in the marriage and then discuss them in a manner that accentuates his disrespect for her.  Now, here, you have to be careful.  You don’t want to sound like you’re tearing him down on purpose.  This will just make her defend him.

What you want to do is just ask probing questions that will let her get into the details of why she feels how she feels.  For instance, when she says he was “out all night with the guys,” and she seems visibly upset, you should ask something like, “Does he always disrespect you this way?” and then follow up with, “Why he would not want to spend every waking moment with you is beyond my comprehension.”    This type of conversation works two fold:  It makes her question him and shows her how great you think she is.

Talk About The Bad Stuff

Another way to “force” her to bring up bad things her husband does is to just talk about relationships in general.  Start talking about things your last girlfriend did that hurt your feelings or pissed you off.  Then ask her to volunteer some of the things that aggravate or upset her that her husband does. This will usually open the gates.  You may be surprised to find out just how unhappy she really is.  In fact, she may not be aware of it until she actually starts talking about it.

This works because it gives you an opportunity to show her how well you can communicate with her.  But you really need to listen to what she says and comment on it so she knows you were listening.  Just make sure to not openly, overly criticize her husband.  You want to be a positive light in her life, not a negative one.

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